Unlocking the Healing Path for Pre-verbal Trauma & Neglect through Somatic Experiencing

Sarah B. Alperin
4 min readJul 28, 2023

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Human development begins long before we can articulate our thoughts and feelings with words. Early experiences, particularly pre-verbal trauma and neglect, can leave lasting imprints on our minds and bodies, shaping our behaviors, emotions, and overall well-being. While conventional talk therapies have proven effective for many, some individuals struggle to address pre-verbal trauma and neglect, as these deeply ingrained issues reside beyond the realm of language. However, there is hope: Somatic Experiencing, a revolutionary therapeutic approach, offers a path to healing that delves into the non-verbal aspects of trauma and facilitates transformative growth.

Understanding Pre-verbal Trauma & Neglect

Pre-verbal trauma and neglect refer to adverse experiences that occur in infancy or early childhood, before the individual has acquired the ability to communicate through language effectively. During these formative years, the brain undergoes rapid development, and the child’s capacity to process and make sense of their experiences relies on non-verbal cues, sensations, and bodily responses.

The impacts of such early-life adversity can manifest in various ways, such as emotional dysregulation, physical symptoms, attachment difficulties, and impaired self-esteem. Traditional talk therapy might not effectively address these issues, as the root of the trauma lies embedded in the body’s somatic memory rather than in verbal narratives.

What is Somatic Experiencing?

Developed by Dr. Peter A. Levine, Somatic Experiencing (SE) is a body-oriented approach to trauma resolution that recognizes the intricate interplay between mind and body. The method acknowledges that the body holds crucial information about past traumas and that healing must involve the release of the trapped energy and emotions from those traumatic events.

Somatic Experiencing operates on the belief that, just as the body possesses an innate ability to heal physical wounds, it also contains the capacity to heal emotional and psychological wounds. By focusing on bodily sensations, movements, and rhythms, SE helps individuals reconnect with their natural ability to self-regulate and find balance.

The Role of Somatic Experiencing in Healing Pre-verbal Trauma & Neglect

  1. Accessing Non-Verbal Memories: Somatic Experiencing recognizes that pre-verbal trauma and neglect are held in the body’s somatic memory. Through gentle guidance and attention to bodily sensations, SE allows individuals to access and process these non-verbal memories, leading to profound healing.
  2. Unwinding Dysregulation: Traumatic experiences can lead to dysregulation of the nervous system, resulting in heightened arousal or numbing responses. Somatic Experiencing works to restore the natural rhythm of the nervous system, enabling individuals to manage stress and emotions effectively.
  3. Empowerment through Self-Regulation: A key aspect of SE is empowering individuals to regulate their emotional and physiological responses independently. By fostering a sense of agency, individuals become better equipped to face future challenges confidently.
  4. Establishing Safe Attachment: For individuals who experienced neglect during early development, building a safe and secure attachment with a therapist during SE sessions can be transformative. This healing relationship provides a foundation for addressing attachment wounds and fostering emotional resilience.
  5. Integration and Transformation: Through Somatic Experiencing, individuals gradually integrate their pre-verbal traumatic experiences into their life narratives. This process allows for a new sense of self-awareness, resilience, and a deeper connection to one’s authentic self.

Somatic Experiencing stands as a powerful and transformative approach to healing pre-verbal trauma and neglect.

By acknowledging the non-verbal nature of early-life adverse experiences, SE creates a safe and supportive space for individuals to reconnect with their bodies and embark on a journey of self-discovery and recovery.

While traditional talk therapies remain valuable for many, Somatic Experiencing offers a complementary pathway to healing that addresses the often overlooked somatic aspects of trauma. As the body is given a voice in the healing process, individuals can finally unlock the resilience within themselves and step towards a future marked by growth, balance, and emotional well-being.

Your presence here has made all the difference, and I am incredibly thankful for your time, attention, and engagement. Whether you stumbled upon this blog post by chance or are a dedicated follower, your support means the world to me.

With all the warmth and love in the world,

Sarah Alperin
Somatic Therapist, Child Behavior Expert, ICF PCC Somatic Coach, Founder, The Well-Being Collective

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Sarah B. Alperin
Sarah B. Alperin

Written by Sarah B. Alperin

Somatic Therapist, Child Behavior Expert, ICF PCC Somatic Coach.

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